New Blog

Please do not forget our Blog has moved to devianminds-central.com/blog...or...on the main site deviantminds-central.com and you can click on the tab to the left that says "Blog".

We didn't want to make it a difficult transition over and again we know it's hard when you are use to coming here but we worked hard on the new Blog site and it's WordPress and will be easier to look at via mobile!

We love mobile!

Check it out!

This is the last time I will post on here.  I will be posting on the new blog from now on and will only keep this up for another week....

New Blog!

HTTP://WWW.DEVIANTMINDS-CENTRAL.COM/BLOG!!!!

I know changing blogs can be difficult and annoying!  Especially if you are use to going to one place, but the deviantminds-central.com/blog is up to date and looking FABULOUS!  If I don't say so myself!  So from now on please hop on over there for the more recent blogs and posts! 

I will be transferring some blogs over to that site so if they look like duplicates they probably are!  Sorry for that!  This blog will only be up for about another two weeks till I get stuff sent over there and off here. 

Sensual Massage

This post is for both women and men, so ladies don't expect your man to get the lotion out just for you!  Touch can be a very powerful connection between two people and not just sensual touch.  When you shake hands with someone you can get an instant reaction of who that person is and their attitude.  The same goes for sensual massage.  Ladies, when all you want to do is hurry through it so you can get your massage, he can feel it.  It goes both ways guys.  When you rub her shoulders quick through the 30-second beer commercial so you can get back to the game chances are you won't be getting any later.  So, what to do, what to do...?  Try these tips below to get started:

On the Couch
You don't have to be in the bedroom and naked for it to be a sensual massage.  Start on the couch watching TV, rub each other’s shoulders, or stroke each other’s backs or arms.  You can take the G-rated moves up a notch to PG-13 rated moves and pretend you're back in high school trying to get away with whatever you can.  Be gentle and put some care into your touch.  It's all about intent and good vibes. 

In the Kitchen
Go up behind your partner and give them a 2-minute shoulder rub while they're doing dishes or standing in front of the stove.  Make sure they don't have their hands full or moving back and forth between the stove and counter, this should be helpful and not put you in their way.  When you randomly do this for your partner it will show you appreciate their hard work.  Little gestures like that will get you ones in return. 

In the Bathroom
When you're in the bathroom brushing your teeth and getting ready for bed try to casually touch your partner.  You know, you see it in the movies...a touch here, a look there and you heat up the sexual tension.  If you casually make eye contact with your partner in the mirror and smile; brush up against their back; reach for the toothpaste at the same time. You are creating a tingling tension; every new touch becomes more.  

In the Bedroom
Everything up till now is either foreplay or an appetizer.  When you get into bed get close and spoon.  Girls, get your hair out of the way (unless your guy likes it).  Continue what you were doing on the couch, slow strokes on the arm or back.  Take it a little further and borderline into the sensual contact.  Don't bring out the lotion or oil yet.  If you wear pj's to bed go under them don't take them off.  Lightly tease each other.  Your goal is to build the tension more. 

*Before you get to the bedroom you can light a wax candle called Kissable Kandle.  After it burns for 30 minutes you can blow out the candle and use it as massage oil.  There are others available as well. 

Oil, lotion, wax...

When you get to the point where you're both ready to take it further reach over for the oil or lotion.  If you use lotion make sure it has a oil base so it doesn't soak into the skin in to quickly that can be a problem when you apply and re-apply lotion.  It can ball up after a bout 10 -15 minutes and it doesn't end up tasting very good when you get down to business.  If you use oil remember a little goes a long way, neither of you are Slip and Slides.  Get something organic that smells nice, not the flavor stuff that can get sticky.  You want this sensual not a guess-that-flavor contest.  With the organic massage oil you don't have to worry about the sudden burning sensation because you find out you're really allergic to it (mood killer).  Try Intimate Organics Sensual Massage oil. 

Take it slow and give each other the same amount of attention.  Try building the tension more by teasing the areas you know turns your partner on.  Guys, girls are stronger than you think, use a little pressure don’t just rub it in.  Ask her if it feels good, she just might want more.  Girls, use a water based lube on your man and massage his hardest muscle!  Watch him and his reactions also don’t be afraid to ask him how he likes it or wants you to do it.  This isn’t a chore so have fun and please each other!

Make sure you check out http:/deviantminds-toystore.com for the Intimate Organics Sensual Massage Oil and the Kissable Kandle.  With over 900 different kinds of lube I'm sure you can find one you like!