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Monday, October 11, 2010
Thursday, October 7, 2010
New Blog!
HTTP://WWW.DEVIANTMINDS-CENTRAL.COM/BLOG!!!!
I know changing blogs can be difficult and annoying! Especially if you are use to going to one place, but the deviantminds-central.com/blog is up to date and looking FABULOUS! If I don't say so myself! So from now on please hop on over there for the more recent blogs and posts!
I will be transferring some blogs over to that site so if they look like duplicates they probably are! Sorry for that! This blog will only be up for about another two weeks till I get stuff sent over there and off here.
I know changing blogs can be difficult and annoying! Especially if you are use to going to one place, but the deviantminds-central.com/blog is up to date and looking FABULOUS! If I don't say so myself! So from now on please hop on over there for the more recent blogs and posts!
I will be transferring some blogs over to that site so if they look like duplicates they probably are! Sorry for that! This blog will only be up for about another two weeks till I get stuff sent over there and off here.
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Sensual Massage
On the Couch
You don't have to be in the bedroom and naked for it to be a sensual massage. Start on the couch watching TV, rub each other’s shoulders, or stroke each other’s backs or arms. You can take the G-rated moves up a notch to PG-13 rated moves and pretend you're back in high school trying to get away with whatever you can. Be gentle and put some care into your touch. It's all about intent and good vibes.
In the Kitchen
Go up behind your partner and give them a 2-minute shoulder rub while they're doing dishes or standing in front of the stove. Make sure they don't have their hands full or moving back and forth between the stove and counter, this should be helpful and not put you in their way. When you randomly do this for your partner it will show you appreciate their hard work. Little gestures like that will get you ones in return.
In the Bathroom
When you're in the bathroom brushing your teeth and getting ready for bed try to casually touch your partner. You know, you see it in the movies...a touch here, a look there and you heat up the sexual tension. If you casually make eye contact with your partner in the mirror and smile; brush up against their back; reach for the toothpaste at the same time. You are creating a tingling tension; every new touch becomes more.
In the Bedroom
Everything up till now is either foreplay or an appetizer. When you get into bed get close and spoon. Girls, get your hair out of the way (unless your guy likes it). Continue what you were doing on the couch, slow strokes on the arm or back. Take it a little further and borderline into the sensual contact. Don't bring out the lotion or oil yet. If you wear pj's to bed go under them don't take them off. Lightly tease each other. Your goal is to build the tension more.
*Before you get to the bedroom you can light a wax candle called Kissable Kandle. After it burns for 30 minutes you can blow out the candle and use it as massage oil. There are others available as well.
Oil, lotion, wax...
Take it slow and give each other the same amount of attention. Try building the tension more by teasing the areas you know turns your partner on. Guys, girls are stronger than you think, use a little pressure don’t just rub it in. Ask her if it feels good, she just might want more. Girls, use a water based lube on your man and massage his hardest muscle! Watch him and his reactions also don’t be afraid to ask him how he likes it or wants you to do it. This isn’t a chore so have fun and please each other!
Make sure you check out http:/deviantminds-toystore.com for the Intimate Organics Sensual Massage Oil and the Kissable Kandle. With over 900 different kinds of lube I'm sure you can find one you like!
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Fetish #4 Pony Play
The Fantasy
Is there anything finer than being groomed after a springtime ride in the park with your Master? The soft brush against your hide; the gentle way he combs your thick mane. Not one person failed to marvel at your perfect form while your Master sat proudly atop your back as you trotted by, envious that your Master obviously cares and loves you very much. Your coat shining in the sun and your mane flowing in the breeze. And to think for years you wanted a pony of your own. Who would think you would love being one so much more!
What is it?
Well, there are three types of ponies: riding ponies, cart ponies and show ponies. Riding ponies are mostly men, but can also be women. They will carry their owner on their back either on all fours or on two legs. A cart pony pulls a small seating cart that their owner sits in. A show pony is all show. Usually a woman but can also be a man, the pony is groomed and shown in a graceful gait and receptive to all commands.
Why do you ask? This is another form of BDSM. Ordinary people will spend thousands of dollars to be groomed and dressed as a pony and led around by owners or their Masters. It's almost no different than being a "pet" with a collar and being led around on a leash, this is just a more specific pet. Special fetish shops will sell all kinds of equine or Ponyplay accessories such as boots with horseshoe bottoms, leather reins and bits, saddles, full head harnesses, and but plugs with tails coming off them. Often times pony gear will look like regular bondage gear with leather corsets, metal rings, clamps, exposed breasts and genitals or some will be completely nude except for their bit and reins.
Ponyplay is pretty open-ended except for a few rules. Ponies never break character during Ponyplay, they can not use their arms unless they are on all fours (because they will need them for the front legs), they will never talk back to the owner or trainers (because ponies don't talk), and they never talk about Ponyplay during pony play (that's where the no talking comes in). Ponyplay consists of whatever is good for everyone. The owner can spend all day grooming their pony, ride them around, work their pony or engage in hot pony/owner sex.
Psychological Origins
Why would someone want to do this? Easy answer: for fun. Like I said before this is another part of BDSM role-play. Some people enjoy willful humiliation or owner allowed humiliation. Others just like playing a noble steed and find nothing humiliating at all. One interesting aspect is that the pony is respected and cared for by the owner. In most normal BDSM games the dominant party (male or female) might actually be cruel to the submissive slave. In Ponyplay the Master will treat the pony as he/she would a real horse. It's possible that most people who are a part of Ponyplay are into the dominate/submissive role of BDSM but not into the cruelty aspects.
Consideration
Be safe. As a 200+ lb man don't try to ride your 100- lb pony. Often a trainer is employed to train the pony to act like a pony, all the proper ways to walk, respond, and even whinny like a pony. Training could also involve weight lifting and cardiovascular workouts. Balance is a huge priority since their arms are restrained behind their backs when they are standing on two legs.
As an added precaution since this is still a form of BDSM make sure you have a safe word and all parties be willing to participate.
All of these wonderful Fetishes are brought to you by "The Deviants Pocket Guide to Outlandish Sexual Desires" By Dennis Diclaudio
Is there anything finer than being groomed after a springtime ride in the park with your Master? The soft brush against your hide; the gentle way he combs your thick mane. Not one person failed to marvel at your perfect form while your Master sat proudly atop your back as you trotted by, envious that your Master obviously cares and loves you very much. Your coat shining in the sun and your mane flowing in the breeze. And to think for years you wanted a pony of your own. Who would think you would love being one so much more!
What is it?
Well, there are three types of ponies: riding ponies, cart ponies and show ponies. Riding ponies are mostly men, but can also be women. They will carry their owner on their back either on all fours or on two legs. A cart pony pulls a small seating cart that their owner sits in. A show pony is all show. Usually a woman but can also be a man, the pony is groomed and shown in a graceful gait and receptive to all commands.
Why do you ask? This is another form of BDSM. Ordinary people will spend thousands of dollars to be groomed and dressed as a pony and led around by owners or their Masters. It's almost no different than being a "pet" with a collar and being led around on a leash, this is just a more specific pet. Special fetish shops will sell all kinds of equine or Ponyplay accessories such as boots with horseshoe bottoms, leather reins and bits, saddles, full head harnesses, and but plugs with tails coming off them. Often times pony gear will look like regular bondage gear with leather corsets, metal rings, clamps, exposed breasts and genitals or some will be completely nude except for their bit and reins.
Ponyplay is pretty open-ended except for a few rules. Ponies never break character during Ponyplay, they can not use their arms unless they are on all fours (because they will need them for the front legs), they will never talk back to the owner or trainers (because ponies don't talk), and they never talk about Ponyplay during pony play (that's where the no talking comes in). Ponyplay consists of whatever is good for everyone. The owner can spend all day grooming their pony, ride them around, work their pony or engage in hot pony/owner sex.
Psychological Origins
Why would someone want to do this? Easy answer: for fun. Like I said before this is another part of BDSM role-play. Some people enjoy willful humiliation or owner allowed humiliation. Others just like playing a noble steed and find nothing humiliating at all. One interesting aspect is that the pony is respected and cared for by the owner. In most normal BDSM games the dominant party (male or female) might actually be cruel to the submissive slave. In Ponyplay the Master will treat the pony as he/she would a real horse. It's possible that most people who are a part of Ponyplay are into the dominate/submissive role of BDSM but not into the cruelty aspects.
Consideration
Be safe. As a 200+ lb man don't try to ride your 100- lb pony. Often a trainer is employed to train the pony to act like a pony, all the proper ways to walk, respond, and even whinny like a pony. Training could also involve weight lifting and cardiovascular workouts. Balance is a huge priority since their arms are restrained behind their backs when they are standing on two legs.
As an added precaution since this is still a form of BDSM make sure you have a safe word and all parties be willing to participate.
All of these wonderful Fetishes are brought to you by "The Deviants Pocket Guide to Outlandish Sexual Desires" By Dennis Diclaudio
Friday, September 24, 2010
Tips and Tricks:
At Deviant Minds-Central we have been trying to get all the information to you in one location (hence the central). We have dating sites, cam girls, erotica (written), toys, and soon classifieds! But like everyone else we need feed back! Let us know what you think! We try to have our main pages on the classier side, not that we aren't down and dirty, but we don't want you to have to cover the screen with a black cloth when someone walks by. We post fetishes and articles so you get tips and info you might not get from another site.
Below are some tips to help you guys and gals out a little with each other! Remember, spice it up! Have fun, buy a toy and get down!
1. Guys, spend a long time on devoted foreplay. Then start with shallow thrusting, no more than an inch inside her. Do ten of these, then have one deep, firm thrust. Switch it up too and keep her guessing.
2. Guys, take sex to the next level by talking dirty to your girl. Bring your lips close to her ear and whisper what you're going to do to her or what you want to do to her. According to Playboy, more women talk dirty during sex than me, so surprise her and get dirty verbally.
3. Guys, great sex starts in the kitchen. Wash the dishes, take out the trash, give her a break, and let her know she's appreciated. You'll be surprised what she'll thank you for! Same goes the other way. Make him lunch everyday and give him a little note in each one promising to give him a naughty treat at the end of the week. When he asks about it just blow it off, the anticipation of what you might or might not do will kill him!
4. Foreplay is important to your girl. Target all of her erogenous zones (her neck, nipples, inner thighs) with your lips, tongue, and fingertips. If you tease her long enough she'll beg you for anything!
5. Guys, when your penis slides in at just the right slant, the thrusting action tickles your girl's clitoris and makes solid contact with her G-spot. Be sure to listen to her moans, when you've been together a while you can tell more what she likes and how.
6. Girls don't be afraid to tell him what he's doing feels good or what to do to feel better. Don't feel nervous or embarrassed to tell him. Trust me if you tell him what you like in the middle of screaming his name he'll do it again!
7. Girls don't buy HUGE toys (unless you're a porn star!) That toy can make your man feel unmanly when the time comes to get down. Try toys you can both use together like a clitoral stimulator, cock rings, nipple clamps, restraints (these are the soft wrist band that Velcro on, not the hard plastic or metal handcuffs that can hurt), and most important and most sold to couples...LUBE! You can never go wrong!
8. Most important to girls, don't use teeth when you go down on him! This is very important. Some guys like it a little, but for the most part it's a no, no. Guys don't be afraid of the back door rule, it's not as bad as you think and when you finally are ok with it you'll feel like you were left out the whole time you wouldn't. Ask friends if they have done it and if they like it. I know men gossip more then women!
9. Every couple needs time to relax. You have to decompress before feeling turned on. So consider stress-reducing ways to be together. Girls, don't turn a guy down all the time, they need love just as much as you do.
10. Get a Kama Sutra Book or a card/coupon kit. This will help you get through some times where you feel like you're doing the same thing every night. Laugh, have fun, the more you relax the better time you have!
Props given to Android Application "Hot Sex Tips" (http://mquachapps.appspot.com/) for the tips above.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Fetish #3 Superhero Fetish
Ok, so I'm not going to go fetish by fetish in the book I think I'll skip around. This week it's the Superhero Fetish. Forgive me, I just watched Zorro and I couldn't help it! There's a good 30-40 fetishes in this book, but there are 100's if not 100,000's more fetishes around the world. This is nothing!
What is it?
Are you into dress up? Jumping off the dresser onto the bed to rescue the "damsel in distress"? Remember the ceiling fan might be on! If you're not into dress up you can always check out the photo manipulated pics of super heroines posed in life threatening situation with shredded Lycra outfits completely worthless and at the hands of the evil super villain!
Psychological Origins
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out. You have stories of well toned, misunderstood heroes in formfitting costumes who find themselves in life-threatening situations. Check out Wonder Woman...her gold lariat of truth and her bad habit of allowing herself to be hog tied by her enemies! Does anyone else see this as a manual for BDSM?
Considerations
All in all this is pretty harmless, unless you are the guy who leaves the ceiling fan on and hits his head on it only to be knocked out for 6 hours while your wife lays naked in bed screaming for help wondering if you seriously injured yourself! Other than that the Superhero Fetish is one of the more harmless.
All of these wonderful Fetishes are brought to you by "The Deviants Pocket Guide to Outlandish Sexual Desires" By Dennis Diclaudio
What is it?
Are you into dress up? Jumping off the dresser onto the bed to rescue the "damsel in distress"? Remember the ceiling fan might be on! If you're not into dress up you can always check out the photo manipulated pics of super heroines posed in life threatening situation with shredded Lycra outfits completely worthless and at the hands of the evil super villain!
Psychological Origins
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out. You have stories of well toned, misunderstood heroes in formfitting costumes who find themselves in life-threatening situations. Check out Wonder Woman...her gold lariat of truth and her bad habit of allowing herself to be hog tied by her enemies! Does anyone else see this as a manual for BDSM?
Considerations
All in all this is pretty harmless, unless you are the guy who leaves the ceiling fan on and hits his head on it only to be knocked out for 6 hours while your wife lays naked in bed screaming for help wondering if you seriously injured yourself! Other than that the Superhero Fetish is one of the more harmless.
All of these wonderful Fetishes are brought to you by "The Deviants Pocket Guide to Outlandish Sexual Desires" By Dennis Diclaudio
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Toy store!
Today we changed the featured items on our toy store and marked all down 10%!. As I have said on our Facebook page if you find an item cheaper on another site we will try matching it or give it to you lower than them!*
We do realize that last month almost all the featured items had lube and now we have more lube or lotion up again. With our supply of over 900 different kinds of lube, lotion and oil we need tend to show a lot of the same. We try to put the packages up where you can get a variety of the same brand to try so you can buy the perfect flavor or scent next time. On average more couples use lube than anything else. Flavored lube won't make him feel small and the clitoral stimulating lube is freaking AWESOME for foreplay!
We also know the "toy" parties can be a huge hit with you and your friends, but the hostess doesn't always have everything you might want to get. Not a problem! Come to our site and look it up, if we have it you can get it over-nighted! Trust me getting a toy is so much better than making your own!
Don't let you man (or girlfriend) talk you into using something laying around either...NOT GOOD! Personal story and maybe a little too TMI, but...my ex-boyfriend wanted to use a non toy item on me and I refused but he did talk me into buying my first vibrator. He was going out of town for almost two weeks and I got on line and ordered. I also ordered a variety pack of lubes to go with it to use. It wasn't anything special (this was before the whole Sex in the City Rabbit outbreak) just a small smooth vibe. I of course tried it out because I didn't want to be too nervous when I brought it out to play, but what a great time we had! He didn't go all "we can't use that because it's a toy and I'm man enough" which was nice, but it also wasn't big. Tip girls...men kinda cry when you buy a toy bigger than them unless you have a cool man who is way awesome about bringing toys in bed.
So, check out or new featured items today and let us know what you think. If there is something you already have and we have it in the store let us know and we will make it a featured item! Also if you have a review you want to do on a specific toy let us know and we'll post it for you!
*Due to going through a third party warehouse we have to mark up all our products at least 10%.
We do realize that last month almost all the featured items had lube and now we have more lube or lotion up again. With our supply of over 900 different kinds of lube, lotion and oil we need tend to show a lot of the same. We try to put the packages up where you can get a variety of the same brand to try so you can buy the perfect flavor or scent next time. On average more couples use lube than anything else. Flavored lube won't make him feel small and the clitoral stimulating lube is freaking AWESOME for foreplay!
We also know the "toy" parties can be a huge hit with you and your friends, but the hostess doesn't always have everything you might want to get. Not a problem! Come to our site and look it up, if we have it you can get it over-nighted! Trust me getting a toy is so much better than making your own!
Don't let you man (or girlfriend) talk you into using something laying around either...NOT GOOD! Personal story and maybe a little too TMI, but...my ex-boyfriend wanted to use a non toy item on me and I refused but he did talk me into buying my first vibrator. He was going out of town for almost two weeks and I got on line and ordered. I also ordered a variety pack of lubes to go with it to use. It wasn't anything special (this was before the whole Sex in the City Rabbit outbreak) just a small smooth vibe. I of course tried it out because I didn't want to be too nervous when I brought it out to play, but what a great time we had! He didn't go all "we can't use that because it's a toy and I'm man enough" which was nice, but it also wasn't big. Tip girls...men kinda cry when you buy a toy bigger than them unless you have a cool man who is way awesome about bringing toys in bed.
So, check out or new featured items today and let us know what you think. If there is something you already have and we have it in the store let us know and we will make it a featured item! Also if you have a review you want to do on a specific toy let us know and we'll post it for you!
*Due to going through a third party warehouse we have to mark up all our products at least 10%.
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