Friday, September 24, 2010

Tips and Tricks:

When it comes to sex there are sooooo many different sub subjects it's ridiculous!  From fetishes, toys, videos, erotica, photos, positions, Kama-Sutra lifestyle, the list goes on and on.  No one person could ever know EVERYTHING about sex that's why magazines and books come out with tips and tricks on how to romance your partner into that love session between the sheets (or for some on the dining room table).

At Deviant Minds-Central we have been trying to get all the information to you in one location (hence the central).  We have dating sites, cam girls, erotica (written), toys, and soon classifieds!  But like everyone else we need feed back!  Let us know what you think!  We try to have our main pages on the classier side, not that we aren't down and dirty, but we don't want you to have to cover the screen with a black cloth when someone walks by.  We post fetishes and articles so you get tips and info you might not get from another site.

Below are some tips to help you guys and gals out a little with each other!  Remember, spice it up!  Have fun, buy a toy and get down!

1.  Guys, spend a long time on devoted foreplay. Then start with shallow thrusting, no more than an inch inside her. Do ten of these, then have one deep, firm thrust.  Switch it up too and keep her guessing.  

2.  Guys, take sex to the next level by talking dirty to your girl. Bring your lips close to her ear and whisper what you're going to do to her or what you want to do to her.   According to Playboy, more women talk dirty during sex than me, so surprise her and get dirty verbally.  

3.  Guys, great sex starts in the kitchen. Wash the dishes, take out the trash, give her a break, and let her know she's appreciated.  You'll be surprised what she'll thank you for!  Same goes the other way.  Make him lunch everyday and give him a little note in each one promising to give him a naughty treat at the end of the week.  When he asks about it just blow it off, the anticipation of what you might or might not do will kill him!

4.   Foreplay is important to your girl. Target all of her erogenous zones (her neck, nipples, inner thighs) with your lips, tongue, and fingertips.  If you tease her long enough she'll beg you for anything!

5.  Guys, when your penis slides in at just the right slant, the thrusting action tickles your girl's clitoris and makes solid contact with her G-spot.  Be sure to listen to her moans,  when you've been together a while you can tell more what she likes and how.   

6.  Girls don't be afraid to tell him what he's doing feels good or what to do to feel better.  Don't feel nervous or embarrassed to tell him.  Trust me if you tell him what you like in the middle of screaming his name he'll do it again!

7.  Girls don't buy HUGE toys (unless you're a porn star!)  That toy can make your man feel unmanly when the time comes to get down.  Try toys you can both use together like a clitoral stimulator, cock rings, nipple clamps, restraints (these are the soft wrist band that Velcro on, not the hard plastic or metal handcuffs that can hurt), and most important and most sold to couples...LUBE!  You can never go wrong!  

8.  Most important to girls, don't use teeth when you go down on him!  This is very important.  Some guys like it a little, but for the most part it's a no, no.  Guys don't be afraid of the back door rule, it's not as bad as you think and when you finally are ok with it you'll feel like you were left out the whole time you wouldn't.  Ask friends if they have done it and if they like it.  I know men gossip more then women!

9.  Every couple needs time to relax. You have to decompress before feeling turned on. So consider stress-reducing ways to be together.  Girls, don't turn a guy down all the time, they need love just as much as you do.

10.  Get a Kama Sutra Book or a card/coupon kit.  This will help you get through some times where you feel like you're doing the same thing every night.  Laugh, have fun, the more you relax the better time you have!

Props given to Android Application "Hot Sex Tips" (http://mquachapps.appspot.com/) for the tips above.

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